The Author's Corner: Let It Die

So, lets talk about the past. First and most important is that we can not go back in time to change it. We have a past that is different from each other, no one’s past is any worse than someone else. What some would say is as an easy past compared to theirs, however for that person it maybe harder than what we have gone through.

There are a lot of people who are controlled from their past as it makes some decisions harder because these people follow their old patterns. In the cases when new problems or choices, we need to look at what is happening in the moment. Making decisions from your past is what most people do, and they wonder why they fail.

Moving from the past to the present is something that takes time and it hurts us because any growth in any direction cause pain. These changes will make us grow in a positive way and then the comments of, ‘Well, if I could change,’ becomes the past as you have identified the will to change. Some people are afraid of what they could be if they let the past die and move on with their lives.

With what comes of our past event is that what we have lived through has shaped us into who we are today. That is the positive thing that has come from the past. What we must do is to stop living in the past because it takes away from who you are now. We can learn the lessons and look back at the good time in the past, however staying in the past is not healthy.

We all have days when nothing is going right, and we blame the past for it. The fact is that we need to see the problem and fix it in the best ways that we can stay in the present moment. Just because something bad has happened to you in the past does not mean that you are going to experience more bad things. If you focus on bad things, then bad things will happen.

The power of your thoughts will lead your decision making. If you think negative that is what you will get in life. The ones who think positively stop living in the past and are letting the past to die.

Stay safe.